Although Sunday is
supposed to be a day of rest, it’s
not always the most restful day of the week for Mormons because, in addition to
simply attending church for three hours, most of us have Sunday assignments to
fulfill: we speak in the worship service, we administer the sacrament, we lead
the singing, we play the organ, we teach adult lessons, we teach youth lessons,
we take care of the children in the nursery, we organize service projects for
the coming week, and so on. And if, like Michael, you preside over a whole
congregation, you also conduct administrative meetings and hold individual
counseling sessions for several hours.
But today, Sunday was
truly a day of rest and renewal for us. Not only did we not have any of our
usual Sunday responsibilities, but we also didn’t have to repack our suitcases and meet
a bus.
We did attend church,
however. The first striking thing we noticed when we arrived at the Takapuna
Tongan Ward was that although sacrament meeting was not scheduled to begin for
another four or five minutes, the pews were already full of families waiting
quietly for the meeting to begin. (This is not typical; Mormons tend to arrive
at the last minute—or
several minutes after the last minute—and
most families do not sit very quietly once they get there.) The second striking
thing we noticed is that DeEtte, Art, Michael and Nancy were the only fair-skinned
people in the congregation. The third striking thing we noticed was that the
man conducting the meeting was speaking in Tongan. For some reason, when Art
and DeEtte suggested that we attend the 9:00 Tongan service instead of their
usual 11:00 service so that they could show us a little more of the island today,
Michael hadn’t
registered the fact that he wouldn't be able to understand a word that was said.
As it turned out, not
everything during the meeting was spoken in Tongan. One of the sacramental
prayers was given in English, and the two teenagers who gave talks also chose
to use English. We appreciated being able to understand at least some of the
meeting, but the fact that one of the ethnic-Tongan teenagers admitted to not
knowing much Tongan gave us cause for concern. In a generation or two, will
this beautiful, vowel-filled language be lost? We hope not.
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Takapuna Farmer's Market |
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Nothing like ice cream at Phil's for bonding |
Even though we had not yet eaten our sandwiches, we had to stop at Phil's Original for ice cream made with fresh berries. (No one objected to eating dessert before the main.)
We soon discovered
why Murawai is Art and DeEtte's favorite beach. For one thing, the sand is an
unusually dark, dramatic color—almost
black. For another thing, the cliffs bookending the beach are awesome—especially when big waves crash against
them. There are also some tide pools and a large colony of gannets in residence
on the rocks. We ate our lunch sitting on a hillside overlooking the beach (carefully
placing ourselves upwind from the gannet colony) and enjoyed watching the
surfers ride the waves below. It was quite hot, so Michael was concerned about
the sun exposure even though he had put on sunscreen (a perennial problem down here
where the ozone layer is very thin).
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The gannet colony at Murawai Beach |
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Michael and Nancy on Murawai Beach |

Back at the apartment,
we did a last load of laundry, wrote another blog post, and repacked our bags
while DeEtte and Art prepared dinner. They have been wonderful hosts, and it has
been great to hear their funny stories and more serious thoughts over the past few
weeks. Friends are good, but friends who are also siblings are even better.
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